Amazon Prime Video The Tender Bar is a touching story of growing up from the perspective of JR, who grew up in his grandfather’s house. JR has a deep desire to be a writer but has doubts about his abilities. Uncle Charlie wants him to be a real man. On the other hand, his mother wants him to become a lawyer.
Summary of the piece “The Tender Bar”:
At the beginning of the movie, we see JR and his mother move into his grandfather’s house. The house is always lively and JR learns a lot from the candid but kind Uncle Charlie. JR’s father is a radio announcer who travels from city to city. JR’s grandfather does not like his father. Despite this, JR tries to listen to his father’s radio programs whenever possible. But after a few encounters, it becomes clear that the missing father doesn’t really care about his child.
JR’s love of reading blossoms thanks to his uncle Charlie, who introduces the boy to the wonders of literature. For example, he impressed the regulars at his uncle’s bar with a puzzle from a local newspaper.
Cutscenes shows young JR on his way to Yale for an interview. On the way he tells the priest that he has doubts about his admission.
In the end, Yale accepts JR and gives him a scholarship. He falls in love with Sydney while he is studying, but when he arrives at their wonderful Christmas mansion, Sydney breaks up with him. JR is fond of Sydney throughout college, but continues to break up with him. After their frequent breakups during their final year of college, she advised JR to consider applying to The New York Times.
The end of the Tender Bar states that:
An internship at the New York Times does not lead to a full-time reporter job, so JR leaves the newspaper. Convinced of his desire to write a book, JR spends his days at his uncle’s bar, writing and drinking nonstop.
During this time, his desire to see his father again grew. They finally meet at dinner. The reunion didn’t go well, and JR was forced to call the police after his drunk father hit a woman.
JR tells his uncle that he and a friend from Yale are moving to Manhattan. We see JR driving away in his new car, which was a gift from Uncle Charlie, and at the end of the movie he’s thinking about his diary.
It is possible that JR is writing his memoirs, although we are just witnessing the beginning of his literary career. JR says in his voiceover that he is fortunate to have written his memoirs at a time when the genre was very popular. It’s no secret that JR is working on his book, and uses the film as an opportunity to tell the audience how he got to the point where he started writing.
JR’s puberty story is another dramatic story that ends in the last minutes of the movie. In the end he left his grandfather’s house. He seems to have fulfilled Uncle Charlie’s ideas about what it means to be “a man” – except for the car that Uncle gave him as a gift.
Did JR and his father reconcile?
JR stuck with his father through most of his youth. Despite being constantly ignored even as a teenager, JR tries to develop a relationship with his father. JR’s recent meeting with his father has become a revelation to him. After seeing his father attack a woman, JR decides that his father cannot save and stops him. So JR and his father never reconciled. Immediately after this experience, JR stated that he no longer had a father.
Insecurity and fear of failure plague JR, but Uncle Charlie’s timely advice saves him from impending alcoholism. In the film’s finale, JR realizes that he will still carry his father’s bad qualities.